Counter-Estrange

The pain of estrangement is pervasive, intense, and relentless.  Finding relief from the grief is essential.  Oftentimes, in a highly emotional state, clients want to cut off the other person in retaliation, which is known as counter-estranging.  Counter-estranging is choosing to inform the person who initially distanced themselves from you that you find them at fault for the broken relationship and that you too will no longer stay in relationship.  Counter-estranging is an extreme strategy that some people choose in order to move forward in life.  Counter-estranging can produce beneficial outcomes along with the high stakes result of extinguishing any hopes of future reconciliation.  Coaching will provide you with an a variety of options that may be more therapeutic.